I hate to admit, but I sometimes tend to be very unaware of women's need for thoughtfulness. Before Valentine's day, Timmy and I had a discussion about celebrating our 9th month anniversary this Feb. 28 when the issue about the Valentine's day surfaced. Nonchalantly, I asked if we still need to celebrate that when our monthly anniversary is only a few days after it. I forgot it would be our first Valentine together and I never knew she was really looking forward to it.

I never intended to offend her, I sometimes only think so much about the expenses which I failed to point out. So on Valentine's day, we dined out and watched the movie 'Music and Lyrics' together. And I was so glad that we did, I think Timmy was looking her best and I felt certain I had the most beautiful Valentine date that night. She seemed prepared indeed.

Five days later, Timmy made me a basketful of delicious raisin cookies that even my mother loved! I think I really need counseling on being thoughtful.